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What might be a safer suggestion: if your cousin is upset enough about this to want some peace, she might go to see a counselor. If she isn't able to bring this up with the man she has been with for 6 years and purchased a home with - then maybe they aren't ready for marriage.
Doing the work to figure out why we are in the situation we are in can be helpful; sometimes we decide that we're okay where we are, and sometimes we make other choices. On this topic, he said that men will continue to do what they've always done unless we set some standards.And we're going to go on renting you out, with the option to buy if you let us..." He says it's also not about you proposing to him if you don't want to do that, but it's more about just recognizing your own power and taking control of your life. Your cousin should not have purchased a home with her emotionally unavailable boyfriend!!!!! What a mess she got herself into, but I guess love was blind for her.I won't do him the disservice of quoting the entire suggested conversation (especially since I don't wanna get hit with a copyright suit), so I really recommend that she buy a copy or go to the library. No, you should NOT talk to her boyfriend about this! Even is asked by either or both parties to express an opinion, smile and stick with "no comment". If he can't connect with her, what good could your interference do?Encourage her to do this, if there is ANY HOPE of the guy coming around, it would be after some time to himself. And Please try to convince her not to do something like this ever again!!!! They need to have open communication now or their relationship will not succeed. Must be very hard for you to see your cousin go through this.